What happens if you don’t get a call back after an audition?
Understanding Rejection in the Acting World and What It Really Means
(By Jim Webb)
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It’s Not Always About You
One of the hardest parts of being an actor is learning how to navigate the silence that often follows an audition. You walk out of the room feeling confident—you delivered your lines, hit your marks, and maybe even got a smile or two from the casting team. Days pass. Then weeks. No email. No call. What happened?
The truth is, not getting a callback doesn’t always mean you did something wrong.
“There are a hundred reasons you don’t get a callback, and most of them have nothing to do with your talent,” says casting director Sarah Finn, known for her work on Marvel films. “Sometimes you’re too tall. Or you look too much like the lead actor’s cousin. Or the director changed their mind about the role entirely.”
Example:
Actor John Cho once shared that he auditioned for over 20 roles in a single year and didn’t receive a callback for most of them. “It made me think, ‘Am I missing something?’ But later I found out that many of those roles were cast based on chemistry reads with already-chosen actors. It had nothing to do with my performance.”
The Competition Is Fierce
In major cities like Los Angeles and New York, a single casting notice can yield thousands of submissions. For one role, there may be 300 in-person auditions and only a handful of callbacks. That’s a steep pyramid.
“It’s like the Olympics,” says actor and coach Leslie Odom Jr. “You train hard, you give your all, and then sometimes someone else just edges you out by a hair.”
Even if you gave a stellar performance, there may have been another actor who simply embodied the role more fully. Maybe they had that intangible “it” factor the casting director was looking for.
Example:
Jenna Ortega, before her breakout role in Wednesday, mentioned that she went on “dozens of auditions with no feedback” despite being told she was a top choice. “It wasn’t that I wasn’t good. I just wasn’t the one.”
Callbacks Are Only One Step
Not getting a callback doesn’t mean the audition was a failure. In fact, some casting directors keep detailed notes on actors they like for future roles, even if they don’t use them right away.
“We keep a shortlist of actors we love,” says casting associate Maria Perez. “I’ve seen people come back a year later and land a completely different role because we remembered their audition.”
Example:
Bryan Cranston once said that one of his biggest roles came from a casting director who remembered him from an audition two years earlier. “You think you’re just forgotten, but they remembered me. You’re planting seeds.”
So even if you don’t get a callback for that role, know that your audition may still be making an impression that lasts.
The Psychological Toll of Silence
Rejection hurts. Or worse, the silence does. The not knowing. The hoping. The refreshing of your inbox.
“It’s like dating someone who ghosts you,” says actress and writer Michaela Watkins. “You thought there was a spark, and then…nothing. It makes you question everything.”
Actors often battle imposter syndrome when they don’t receive callbacks. They may begin to doubt their abilities, style, or even their appearance.
Tip:
Keep a journal of every audition. Write what you wore, how you felt, what you nailed, and what you learned. This not only builds self-awareness but helps you see the journey objectively over time.
No Feedback Doesn’t Mean Bad Feedback
In many industries, you get performance reviews or at least some notes. In acting? Not so much. Casting directors are usually too busy to provide feedback to every actor, especially if they’re seeing hundreds.
“If we gave feedback to everyone, we wouldn’t have time to cast the project,” says casting director Erica Arvold. “No news doesn’t mean bad news—it means we’re moving fast.”
Example:
Actor Dev Patel shared that he once asked his agent why he never got feedback after certain big auditions. His agent told him, “No callback is your feedback.” In other words, silence is the only response you’ll get sometimes.
But that doesn’t mean your performance was poor. It just wasn’t the right fit.
Focus on What You Can Control
Actors often fixate on things they can’t control: what the casting director thinks, whether the camera caught their good side, how they compare to others. But focusing on what you can control is key to sanity.
“You can control your preparation,” says Viola Davis. “You can control how you treat the audition. You can control your energy. That’s it.”
Tips:
Be off-book and ready.
Make bold choices that show your interpretation.
Be professional, punctual, and polite.
Follow up only when appropriate—don’t harass casting.
All of these show that you take your craft seriously, and that professionalism may pay off down the line.
Keep Training and Growing
Actors who don’t get callbacks sometimes fall into a slump. But the best remedy for rejection is action.
“You have to treat it like a job even when no one’s hiring you yet,” says Samuel L. Jackson. “Take classes, do plays, keep the knife sharp.”
Example:
After years of struggling to get callbacks, actress Tatiana Maslany took intensive improv and voice classes. “It made me more grounded and flexible,” she said. “And then Orphan Black came—and I was ready.”
Whether it’s scene study, dialect coaching, or even reading more plays, keeping your creative engine running can build your confidence and versatility.
Don’t Burn Bridges
Even if you’re frustrated or disappointed, it’s vital not to lash out. Casting directors talk. Agents talk. Social media can magnify everything.
“I had a friend post about a casting director who didn’t call him back,” recalls actor Ben Barnes. “That director saw the post and never brought him in again.”
Professionalism in the face of disappointment shows maturity. That matters in an industry built on relationships.
Tip:
After a no-callback situation, thank your agent or manager, if you have one. Thank the casting office if appropriate. Stay positive. It sets you apart.
You’re More Than This Role
It’s easy to let a single audition define your worth, but your identity as an artist should never rest on the shoulders of one role—or even one year’s worth of work.
“You’re not auditioning for your soul,” says actor Alan Cumming. “You’re auditioning for a part. One part. You are still whole, still valid.”
Remind yourself why you chose this path. The passion, the storytelling, the possibility of transformation. A role can be lost, but your purpose isn’t.
Final Thoughts
Not getting a callback after an audition can feel like rejection—but more often, it’s just part of the process. There are countless invisible factors at play. While it’s natural to feel disappointed, it’s vital not to personalize the outcome.
The best actors—those who make it through the maze of casting—are often the ones who can weather this silence with grace, persistence, and professionalism.
So the next time the phone doesn’t ring, take a breath. Keep training. Move forward. And trust that another door will open.
As Meryl Streep once said:
“The formula of happiness and success is just being actually yourself, in the most vivid possible way you can.”