What Do Actors Do If They Can’t Cry?

By Carmichael Phillip

  • What Do Actors Do If They Can’t Cry?

    Crying is one of the most powerful emotional expressions an actor can portray. Whether it’s grief, joy, frustration, or fear, tears often convey deep emotions that connect the audience to the character on a profound level. But what happens when an actor simply can’t cry? Is it a deal-breaker for their performance? Fortunately, actors have various methods to tap into those emotions and deliver the tears required for a scene. Here’s how they manage when crying doesn’t come easily.

    1. Emotional Preparation and Mental Technique

    For some actors, crying is a matter of emotional preparation. They draw on their personal experiences or imagine intense situations that evoke the feelings required for the scene. Many actors find that simply connecting to the emotional core of the character’s struggle is enough to bring out tears. This process, known as emotional recall or affective memory, allows actors to access feelings they’ve experienced in their own lives, such as grief, love, or loss, to make the emotions come alive on screen.

    Stanislavski’s System, which has influenced many actors, encourages them to access real emotions through memory and sensory experiences. For example, an actor might vividly remember the death of a loved one or a time when they felt completely heartbroken in order to summon the emotional weight needed for the scene. This can be effective for actors who are naturally emotional and comfortable with this form of deep personal work.

    2. Using the Power of Imagination

    Sometimes, an actor’s imagination can be just as powerful as personal experience when it comes to evoking tears. In this case, the actor will use their ability to envision a scenario that is so heartbreaking or intense that it triggers an emotional reaction. This could involve imagining a deeply tragic event, such as the loss of a child or a breakup, even if they have never personally experienced something similar.

    Actors often rely on their ability to “live in the moment” of the scene, fully inhabiting the character’s world and reacting authentically to the situation. This method can involve picturing emotional triggers that aren’t necessarily part of their own history but still resonate deeply with the character’s journey.

    3. Physical Techniques to Bring on Tears

    When mental and emotional preparation isn’t enough, many actors turn to physical techniques to help induce crying. The body and emotions are tightly connected, and sometimes a physical gesture or action can trigger tears. Some common methods include:

    • Breathing Techniques: Shallow or heavy breathing, mimicking the physiological response to sadness, can help bring on tears. Actors may use controlled breathing patterns, which can simulate the feeling of being overwhelmed with emotion.
    • Eye Irritants: While not a first choice for every actor, using physical irritants to induce tears is an option. This could include using eye drops, vapor, or other substances that cause the eyes to water. While this method might seem artificial, it can be an effective tool for getting the desired emotional reaction on screen, especially in scenes that require very specific types of tears.
    • Physical Gestures: Some actors use their own body language to trigger emotional responses. This can include putting themselves in an uncomfortable physical position or mimicking the motions of someone who is crying. These actions can help them tap into the feeling of vulnerability or distress that may eventually lead to tears.

    4. Vocal Techniques and Acting Choices

    In many instances, crying is not just about the tears themselves; it’s about the way the actor conveys emotion through their voice and body. A great performance doesn’t always need visible tears—sometimes, a quiver in the voice, a tremor in the hands, or a catch in the breath can be just as impactful.

    Voice training can help an actor convey emotion even when they can’t cry physically. Techniques such as crying through speech or using a cracked voice can emulate the sound of someone who is on the verge of tears, helping to convey the emotional intensity of the scene. This is particularly effective when an actor is dealing with a deeply emotional monologue or confrontation.

    5. The Use of Makeup and Special Effects

    Sometimes, the emotional realism of a scene requires tears, but an actor is struggling to produce them. In these cases, makeup artists can step in to help. Some productions use special effects to simulate tears, such as applying glycerin or artificial tear substances to the actor’s face.

    This ensures that the actor’s emotional performance remains authentic without forcing them into a physical or emotional state that they may not be able to achieve in the moment. The combination of an actor’s strong performance and well-timed visual effects can result in a powerful and moving scene.

    6. Breathing Life into the Scene Without Tears

    In some cases, an actor may not need to cry at all for a scene to be emotionally moving. Directors and actors may choose to focus on other aspects of the performance, such as body language, pacing, or facial expressions, to communicate the character’s distress or sorrow.

    For example, an actor may use slow, deliberate movements to express sadness or use silence to build tension and highlight the emotional weight of the scene. Sometimes, less is more—if the audience can feel the weight of the character’s emotions, even without visible tears, it can still be a powerful moment.

    7. Trust in the Director and Collaboration

    Actors are not alone in these situations; they often rely on their director and fellow cast members for support. Directors are trained to recognize when an actor is struggling to access emotions and may offer guidance or specific instructions to help the actor get there. A director might encourage an actor to focus on specific aspects of the scene or give them cues that help them connect emotionally.

    Collaborating with other actors in the scene is also crucial. Actors may rely on each other’s energy and emotional investment to help bring out their own performance. An actor may find that the reactions of their co-stars push them to be more vulnerable or engaged, which can sometimes trigger the tears they need.

    8. The Power of Time and Space

    For some actors, the pressure to cry on cue can be overwhelming, and trying too hard to force tears can result in frustration. In these situations, it can be helpful for an actor to take a step back, breathe, and give themselves time to relax. The emotional journey of a character can sometimes take time to unfold, and being patient with themselves during the process can help create a more authentic performance.

    Giving the actor the space to feel the emotions naturally, instead of pressuring them to cry on cue, often results in more genuine and impactful moments on screen.

    Conclusion

    While crying might seem like a simple task, it can actually be one of the most challenging aspects of acting. When actors can’t cry, they rely on a variety of techniques to still convey powerful emotions that resonate with their audience. Whether through emotional preparation, physical methods, or vocal techniques, the key is finding what works for each individual actor to create an authentic and moving performance.

    At the end of the day, crying is just one tool in an actor’s emotional arsenal. What matters most is the ability to evoke genuine emotion and connect with the audience—whether the tears are real or simulated.

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